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23 hr. ago
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My [28F] Husband [32M] is cheating on me with a green-haired anime girl. What am I supposed to do here?
My [28F] husband and I have a generally good relationship, I am a SAHM for our two infant children a boy and a girl and we have been together for ten years. My husband has always been a nerd, hangs around nerds, etc, has always been into anime, video games, etc and he is a software engineer and is an overall good father and husband. I'm not into the same stuff but I don't mind watching stuff occasionally with him and letting him engage in his hobbies and I would say our relationship is good overall.
Anyway the last six months or so I've noticed our relatively healthy sex/dating life has been going down and I have tried to remedy it by being more kinky in the bedroom asking him what he likes, even offering to do a few things we had not done before but he said it was fine and there was nothing more I could really do because he enjoys it. I thought okay maybe this distance is not because of sex but because I haven't been spending enough time with him so I even offered to go to an anime convention with him and the kids which he said nah you do not have to do that for me. I figure okay, he's been under a lot of stress lately, maybe I just need to endure this.
Recently he has begun to be more suspicious, distant with his phone and his personal computer and I am not a dumb woman I was not born yesterday. I was beginning to suspect a possible affair and while I am not proud of it I went snooping through his phone, files, and computer. I found a folder labeled "my love" and opened it to see thousands of pictures of this seductive looking green haired anime chick with purple eyes and big boobs sometimes long hair sometimes short in lots of lustful poses, though I should mention all of them were clothed and albeit sometimes what I would consider scantily like bikinis. No actual sexual **o stuff at all and trust me I looked through every thumbnail and a lot of pictures. I looked up a folder named "commissions" and I find what looks to be an anime version of my husband going on dates and shit with her and even marrying her???? Again nothing sexual just all romantic sappy shit.
On his phone I found this application called Discord and look through his dms and find this thousands of lines conversation between him and the same anime girl profile picture where he is flirty and romantic with her but still nothing sexual. I flipped out at first thinking maybe this was some real woman using the profile pic or something and doing roleplay with him but it is actually just an AI bot apparently?
I'm not new to Reddit so I know people will ask what anime or game she is from I look up the name of the character based on some file names and she is a girl from this popular japanese rpg thing called trails of cold steel and trails of reverie there that solves your sick curiosity. Her name is Musse Egret and she's like some kind of genius magical girl sniper or something I don't know? Do men like that kind of woman?
What the fuck am I supposed to do about this though? He's (emotionally I guess since there are no sexual pictures or content at all?) cheating on me with some 2d anime girl? Has anyone on the planet gone through this shit? I don't even know how to approach him about this. I would ask my girlfriends but I think they would laugh at me for losing my man to a fucking anime girl...
Upvote 1.4K 626 comments 我[28,女]的丈夫[32,男]和一个绿发动漫女孩偷情。我该怎么办?
我是一位全职妈妈,和我的丈夫以及我们的一双儿女已经携手走过十年。一直以来,我们的关系都相当不错。我的丈夫是个书呆子,总跟书呆子们混在一起,痴迷于动漫、电子游戏之类的,他的职业是软件工程师。尽管我对此类事物并不太感兴趣,但总体来说,他算得上是一位好父亲、好丈夫。为了维系我们的感情,我偶尔也会陪他一起沉浸在这些爱好中。
然而,大约六个月前,我开始察觉到我们的性生活和约会生活的质量在下降。为了改善这一状况,我试着在卧室里表现得更加古怪,询问他喜欢什么,甚至提出尝试一些我们从未做过的事情。但他却表示一切都好,没有什么需要改变的,因为他对此很满意。我当时想,也许问题的根源并不在于性,而是我最近没有花足够的时间陪伴他。于是,我提议和他以及孩子们一起去动漫展,但他却拒绝了,说我不需要为了他这么做。我以为他最近可能压力很大,也许我只需要耐心等待一段时间。
最近,他开始变得更加可疑,对他的手机和个人电脑格外保密。我并不是一个愚蠢的女人,我开始怀疑他可能有外遇了。虽然这样做让我感到非常羞愧,但我还是翻看了他的手机、文件和电脑。我发现了一个名为“我的爱”的文件夹,里面竟然有数千张照片,都是同一个绿色头发、紫色眼睛的动漫女孩,她有时长发飘飘,有时短发俏皮,摆出各种**的姿势。尽管这些照片中的她都穿着衣服,但有些时候穿得相当暴露,比如比基尼。我必须强调的是,这些照片中并没有任何实际的**内容。我仔细查看了每一张照片,发现还有一个名为“约稿”的文件夹,里面似乎是我丈夫的动漫形象在和这个女孩约会,甚至结婚?同样地,这些内容也只是浪漫的废话,并没有涉及性方面。
在他的手机上,我还发现了一个名为Discord的应用程序,并查看了他的直接消息记录。我发现他与同一个动漫女孩头像之间有数千条对话记录,他在对话中对她调情和浪漫表白,但仍然没有涉及性方面的内容。我一开始非常生气,以为这是什么真实的女人在用他的头像或者和他玩角色扮演游戏,但后来我发现这其实只是一个AI机器人?
我并不是Reddit的新手,所以我知道有人会问这个动漫女孩是从哪里来的。我根据一些文件名查找了这个角色的名字,她是来自一款流行的日本角色扮演游戏《闪之轨迹》和《创之轨迹》的一个女孩,名叫Musse Egret。她是一个天才的魔法少女狙击手之类的角色,我不太了解具体的设定。男人们真的喜欢这样的女性角色吗?
我现在到底该怎么办呢?我的丈夫竟然在情感上(我猜的,因为根本没有任何性方面的图片或内容)出轨了一个二维动漫女孩?有人经历过这种离谱的事情吗?我甚至不知道该如何跟他谈这件事。我想向我的女朋友们寻求建议,但我担心她们会嘲笑我,因为我竟然输给了一个动漫女孩……
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